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Let's get real about this transformative rollercoaster of motherhood and figure out how to keep our sanity intact while rediscovering our sense of self.
1. Bonding Over Mom Misery: Because Misery Loves Company
Online forums, local support groups, or your own mom's circle – find your people. Share war stories, exchange survival tips, and revel in the fact that you're not alone in this motherhood mess.
2. Self-Care: Because You're Not a Superhero, Just Super Tired
Let's bust the myth that self-care is a spa day once a year. Real self-care is stealing a few minutes - at minimum - daily (let me repeat: DAILY). Also, to be clear, I do NOT mean things like taking a shower or eating a warm meal. Those are basic human needs, not luxuries.
Fill your cup before the sippy cup (obviously, I don't mean this literally - please make sure your child is hydrated). It might sound selfish to put yourself first. Especially as a mom. It goes against our new-found mommy DNA. But let's be real - do you really think you're at your best as a parent when YOU are not at your best?
3. Pursue Your Passions: More Than Just Diapers and Dishes
Newsflash: Being a mom doesn't mean giving up on your dreams. You can chase your passions amidst the chaos. Start a side hustle, pick up a hobby, or volunteer for a cause. Show your kids that dreams and having fun don't expire with the arrival of dirty diapers. Plus, it's a great excuse to get out of watching that same cartoon for the thousandth time (Bluey excluded, obviously. #blueyforlife).
Need something low commitment? Reading - it's the perfect escapism without actually escaping, you know? We've turned it into a real hobby, using a reading tracker and everything.
4. Parenting 101: Where Google is Your BFF
Let's be real, parenting is a learn-as-you-go job. Google is your new best friend. Dive into articles, podcasts, and online courses that resonate with your parenting style. Engage in debates, because nothing screams "mom of the year" like arguing about the best way to potty train. And don't stop at mom advice - just never stop learning. Stay curious.
Serious Note: Tread carefully - especially those with PPA/PPD, Health Anxiety, etc. Google can reinforce intrusive, anxious thoughts. Please protect your peace and Google responsibly.
5. Reflect on Your Mom Odyssey: Journaling for the Win
Momhood is a wild ride, so take a moment to reflect on it. Journaling isn't just for teenage angst; it's your lifeline. Jot down your dreams, your kid's latest hilarious antics, and your desperate need for caffeine. Self-reflection is the secret sauce to keeping it together, or at least pretending to.
In the grand scheme of momhood, you're not just a mom – you're a chaos coordinator, a self-care guru, and a dreams-and-passions enthusiast. Embrace the madness, find your people, and watch as you navigate this journey of rediscovering yourself. Spoiler alert: You're still in there, and she's pretty darn awesome. Cheers!
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